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Lady Azelle

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Pro Domme Relationship Etiquette

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your relationship with a Pro Domme may not be a romantic relationship, but it is a relationship nonetheless. Within any relationship; friendship, romantic, professional, or otherwise, there are some unwritten rules that help to ensure smooth sailing. Most people who visit Me tend to open up and share some deeply personal things about themselves. Things […]

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Too Nice to be a Domme?

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No Bitch

The stereotype of the Angry Bitch-Goddess is ubiquitous thanks to the internet. It’s difficult to find ‘Femdom’ porn without coming across a Woman with her hair pulled severely back, donning dark makeup, a sneer on Her face, while She screams at the top of her lungs at the ‘lowly maggot’ crawling on the ground beneath […]

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Verbal Humiliation

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Humiliation

The word humiliation is thrown around an awful lot in BDSM. In truth, it’s something I struggled with in My early days. I had no problem with beating an ass until it bleeds, but the thought of saying degrading and demeaning things to someone seemed cruel to Me. It’s interesting that causing someone physical pain […]

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FinDOM or FinDON’T?

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I recently came across an article in the Sun News Online which I think is worth discussing: 
“Blackmailed on the Internet, 19-year-old Quebec man commits suicide” He wasn’t a man. He was a young boy who was just beginning his journey in this world. Click here to read the full story. This story isn’t specifically […]

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Tribute?

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The answer to this question seems rather obvious, but it’s not. Let’s start with the basics. I’m not your girlfriend. I’m not your wife. I’m certainly not your mother, (that is a roleplaying scenario I simply cannot do, and yes, it’s been asked for more than once). I am your Domme. In our consumer-motivated culture we are accustomed to […]

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Let me do my job

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keep calm

I have always been an advocate for open & honest communication. Getting subs & slaves to truly open up & be honest with Me is a wonderful personal achievement for Me as a Domme. There are times, however, when I wish boys (yes, it’s almost always the boys) would show some restraint. Let Me be […]

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Some boys Get It

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Doing It Right

Last month I wrote about the boys who don’t seem to know how to contact a Domme, Pro or otherwise. I’ve actually made good use of that blog this month. Instead of simply ignoring inappropriate initial messages or letting the odd rant loose on one of them, I simply reply with a link to that […]

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How to say ‘hi’ to a Domme

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While I am a Pro Domme, I do have Myself listed on a number of non-pro fetish and Femdom sites, including Fetlife & CollarMe (under the name Lady Azelle, if you are interested in looking for Me). submissive men on sites like this are rarely any better than men on vanilla dating sites, actually, far […]

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My Bottom 10 List

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BottomTen

We all have things that irritate us, pet peeves if you will. Something that tends to get under My skin is a lack of common sense when approaching a Lady. I understand that new subs and slaves may need to be trained in proper etiquette but there really are no excuses for some of the […]

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A Domme a Day Keeps the Doctor Away

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Winter is upon us & Mother Nature is subjecting us to Her beauty and misery. Immune systems are low, viruses are running rampant and the lack of vitamin D from our short bleak days is beginning to affect everyone’s well-being. Perhaps this year a new approach to winter wellness is just what the doctor ordered. […]

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