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So you’re new to the kink scene

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Inspired by a friend’s experiences… OK so not just bondage related here. This is unfortunately the kind of thing that just applies to anyone new to kink. When you’re new predators will try to prey upon you. They honestly will! When you are new is when you most need to be careful. Plenty of people […]

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Identifying predatory behaviour

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I recently wrote a short article on being new to the scene. In all honesty it got a lot more of a reaction that I’d been expecting. It was really just about sense and taking care of yourself as a newcomer to the scene. This is by no means comprehensive but it does include a […]

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Newness and getting out into the kink community

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For many people it’s a nerve-wracking step going out into the community especially to the myriad of events, workshops, munches and parties. This is especially because of uncertainty about what to expect and how to behave. Also how should they react to how other people behave? Here are a few things you should always be […]

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What makes a good rope bottom

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A little warning. The following is how I see things at this moment in time. You are free to disagree but, I’m free not to care if you do. Clover and I involved in an intense moment in shibari bondage. So what makes a good rope bottom? This is a question that I see answered […]

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Barbarians at the gate again, 50 shades of them apparently

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I’ve seen this phrase a couple of times recently. Come to think of it I’ve heard it or something very like it ever since I’ve been on the kink scene. Sometimes they mean it to be that they’re worried about some kind of influx of people who are experimenters. (People who’ve just read 50 shades […]

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More than one reason to love Kimono.

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There have been times when I’ve not really been keeping up with my lovely girl Clover’s blog but reading a few moments ago has reminded me why I should. Her post on One reason to love Kimono very eloquently relayed to me some of her feelings wearing and being tied in Kimono, the finer details of which would have […]

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It’s all about…

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The longer you’re around the bondage scene the more you notice the ebb and flow of trends within the scene. One of the current fads is ‘connection‘ you see people doing classes all over that never apparently worried about this area of their bondage before. I see people who have displayed nothing but an obsession […]

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You have to be a good bottom to be a good top?

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I think that this is very much a misconception. It assumes that your experience is that of your partner or close enough that it helps you to understand what they are feeling. Imagine you have an experience and it opens your eyes, it makes you realise how good that thing can be, it shows you […]

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This can go wrong

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The unexpected can effect us all… unexpectedly. Many people say to expect the unexpected. With respect to rope bondage and suspension the number things that could go wrong is large but finite we therefore can be prepared for the majority of likely happenings. One thing that occurs to me is that there is a difference […]

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Acidental

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Sometimes awful things happen, not because the person who was doing them was awful but  because something went awfully wrong. An equipment failure, an error of judgement, a slip, a miscalculation. I saw a performance, there was an error, the model nearly dropped. Before the performance I really liked them. After she nearly dropped her […]

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